tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post5830482310033283167..comments2023-10-11T08:23:51.911-04:00Comments on Bas~Melech Blogs!: Interplanetary Science 102Bas~Melechhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01511197551248863790noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-60813358575782342212008-12-31T10:44:00.000-05:002008-12-31T10:44:00.000-05:00Thihs is so true. When my father was giving out Ch...Thihs is so true. When my father was giving out Chanukah money, my little brother wanted it to be fair and was willing to give up money so that the older ones shouldn't get more, and that we should all get equal amounts. Say he's 12 years old, instead of everyone getting their age money, he said we should all just get 10 dollars. <BR/><BR/>Then it makes sense why girls are always nicer, because they don't look at what's logical, and would risk telling a white lie so that things should be nice and peaceful.Jewish Side of Babysitterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15792110478994916775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-76734845427612263122008-03-12T00:54:00.000-04:002008-03-12T00:54:00.000-04:00Actually in this case I think it is a case of our ...Actually in this case I think it is a case of our education (fairness is one of the 13 attributes of G-d, having fun isn't one of the 13 attributes) because cheating is never good because it hurts others who are honest.And to blame someone unfairly you are hurting that person for no reason. I know as a man in school and growing up if a man is dishonest they are held accountable. My mother would get angry when I was dishonest even if I was dishonest because my mother was very mean at times. Even reading this women's comments she seems to be happy her son is ballistic. But when my sister was dishonest my mother didn't care. Unless it is for peace I don't know if it is good to cheat. Furthermore, when women are dishonest the community doesn't care or makes excuses for them and thinks women will always be naturally good which is an insult by the way to the women that work hard on their middot.I see this a lot dating that women really hurt men by their dishonesty and don't even care. And to be fair I rarely read the other way around. So I think it has to do with our community not teaches women that to be a good person takes work and for some strange reason pushes this idea that women are NATURALLY GOOD which as I said hurts the women that really do stand out in their righteousness which didn't come without some work. NOne of the Matriarchs was any of their great traits having fun. I think women tend to have more mercy then Justice which I think is important as a good married man would want his justice tempered with his wife's mercy. <BR/>Yes, life isn't always fair but this doesn't mean that we therefore tell the person that was treated unfairly that he shouldn't care. That is actually against one of G-d's attributes. The world is imperfect but we are SUPPOSE TO MAKE IT BETTER NOT SAY WELL THE WORLD IS UNFAIR SO THEREFORE IF OUR SON IS TREATED UNFAIRLY WE DON"T CARE OR we punish somebody for no reason. We should be fair and not blame the other and if girls don't understand that I think the Rabbi's and other who make excuses for the women are to blame.Adam K https://www.blogger.com/profile/02021938340159347269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-60018435848713242222008-02-28T11:47:00.000-05:002008-02-28T11:47:00.000-05:00Love this insight! And I can't wait for your next ...Love this insight! And I can't wait for your next lesson on how to be fair. I find it a challenge to punish the 'right' student. Sometimes when I punish a certain student, he will say that it isn't fair, that HE didn't do it. Being a fair teacher can be really hard sometimes, since you don't have eyes in your back!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-16564949713078025582008-02-28T01:39:00.000-05:002008-02-28T01:39:00.000-05:00pretty good, keep it uppretty good, keep it upsmbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00425290796472256844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-35407164015273067782008-02-27T11:50:00.000-05:002008-02-27T11:50:00.000-05:00Words of wisdom! Publish it.Words of wisdom! Publish it.halfsharedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08897983346646333294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-59797738473928935572008-02-26T21:08:00.000-05:002008-02-26T21:08:00.000-05:00wise.wise.Sarah Likes Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15055831838215589183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-82677773206106714022008-02-26T18:52:00.000-05:002008-02-26T18:52:00.000-05:00Wish I had a nickle for every time I've had to say...Wish I had a nickle for every time I've had to say to students that life isn't always fair--fair is a weather report. You're right, the boys believe that fair is what it's all about. Old rhyme from my youth asked What are little girls made of? Sugar and spice and everything nice. The nice part works as long as you remember that pepper is also a spice.ProfKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17954446826821665314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5603613747739329910.post-8741689112839569082008-02-26T14:37:00.000-05:002008-02-26T14:37:00.000-05:00You got it exactly right! When we play Scrabble, m...You got it exactly right! When we play Scrabble, my son insists that we stick exactly to the rules so that the game should be FAIR, while my daughters are always looking to cheat a little so that the game should be "more fun for us". (This drives my son ballistic.)SuperRaizyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06742653185025562286noreply@blogger.com